user and @ problem (no replies)

i want to access a remote mysql and when use a query string like it :
DATABASE=zareiene_csharpplan;UID=zareiene_csp;PASSWORD=cbccvbcvb;
.net connector will change my uid from zareiene_csp@mylocalip and my remote mysql will not athenticate it!
i don't want .net connector add @localIP to my user and use exactly the user i choose in my Connection string .
is there anyway ?